Massage Your Fantasy
Men fantasize about getting a full body massage from a woman, ending the session with sexual intercourse. But the same men are also reluctant to tell their lovers about these fantasies.
However, Fantasy is an integral part of massage. Shared in an erotic spirit it can enhance your self-esteem. So, you might want your partner to give your fantasy a relaxing and enticing shape.
To start with don't be afraid to spell out your desire. Be open about what you want and how you want it done. One of the methods advised to overcome initial shyness and awkwardness is to practice breathing during the initial stages of an erotic massage. Regular, conscious breathing is a powerful way to enhance both erotic and relaxation. If the receiving partner forgets to breathe, the massaging partner can remind him or her by breathing rhythmically and audibly. Some partners find that synchronizing the breathing between the two of them leads to wonderful sensations.
When the two of you are relaxed in each other's company, it is a good time to follow up on the desire that builds up in such a situation. This does not mean that you immediately engage in a vigorous session of sex. Instead, try to prolong the pleasure. Use techniques of teasing and calming the body. Patience and enjoyment are two cornerstones of a memorable erotic massage. After all, it is not every day that you can take time off to enjoy it.
While giving a massage to a man you can try the "climbing the mountain" massage that involves taking his member in one hand and gently and sensually caressing it for about ten seconds. Having done that, give it one up-and-down stroke. Repeat the sensuous caressing for another ten seconds (perhaps using slow up-and-down strokes) and then give it two quick up-and-down strokes. Repeat the caressing, then give it three quick strokes and so on. Continue until ejaculation or stop whenever you or your partner want to.
For women, it is important to remember that tastes vary from one woman to another. So it is important to stop and listen and be attentive to her needs and wants. Here you could try the one-and-a-two-and-a-three method of arousal. Start with inserting your first two fingers into her (before you do that however, make sure your nails are closely chopped and hands clean, though lubricated) then arch your thumb back 'hitch hiker' style and thrust in until your thumb rests on her clitoris. You can use a variety of thrusting and twisting motions in this position. Alternatively, you can vibrate your entire hand. Stop whenever the partner signals you to do so.
Fantasy, you would be surprised can come true, provided you allow it to happen to you.